Recently I moved to NYC right after graduating from college. Prior to this move, my life that is dating was and I have not held it’s place in a relationship. After going and having settled, we began to seriously take it more and began actually venturing out on times. About 8 weeks approximately ago, we matched using this man whom appeared like my kind. We proceeded a night out together, hit it well, and began to venture out more. We have been seeing one another every week and I also’ve invested the evening over at their spot maybe once or twice. Right from the start we had been specific in what we had been in search of; i desired to begin dating casually and then he had simply gotten away from a long-term relationship, so he had been into one thing casual too.
I just desired to observe how it was going – as with, ended up being it nevertheless casual or had it be something different. Personally am extremely bad at picking right up social cues and so I asked him straight exactly just just how he felt so i was hoping for a yes) about us continuing to see each other in the future (I really like him. That is as he allow me to politely know very that he’s polyamorous. This entire time we assumed he had been monogamous as it had never show up, and I also felt type of embarrassed for presuming. He explained in his dating app profile, but when we compared them, his profile on my phone does not show the category, so thanks technology that he has it!